MORE PRESENCE. DEEPER CONNECTION
Pleasure, Presence & Intimacy for Couples
w/ Erica Lemke, MA, Board-Certified Sexologist & Certified Sex & Relationship Coach
For couples who want to feel closer, more connected, and more confident in their intimate lives - without pressure or performance.
Intimacy isn’t just about sex. It’s about feeling safe, seen, and turned toward one another.
This 90-minute experiential workshop invites couples to slow down, reconnect, and explore pleasure as a shared experience rooted in safety, presence, and connection.
Whether you feel deeply connected or a little out of sync, this workshop offers practical tools and embodied experiences to help you meet each other with more ease, curiosity, and desire.
In this workshop, couples will explore:
• How emotional and nervous system safety create the foundation for intimacy
• Why presence, not performance, is the gateway to pleasure
• Understanding different desire styles and how to bridge them with compassion
• How touch, curiosity, and communication rebuild connection over time
Experiential practices include:
• A guided sensory experience designed to slow the nervous system and awaken connection
• A gentle version of the Heart Connection practice (adapted for couples)
• Touch-based education exploring how pleasure feels when it’s unrushed and attuned
• A live demonstration of how high-quality lubricant can enhance comfort, sensation, and connection
• Reflection prompts couples can use at home to continue the conversation
(All practices are fully clothed, optional, and guided with clear consent and choice.)
Couples will leave with:
• A clearer understanding of how pleasure and connection work for them
• Simple tools to reduce pressure and increase intimacy
• Language to talk about desire, needs, and boundaries with more ease
• A small take-home pleasure kit to support continued exploration at home
Take-home items may include:
– A premium lubricant sample
– A couples intimacy prompt card or mini guide
– A simple at-home connection ritual
Couples workshop: $95 per couple
Group size: minimum 4 couples; maximum 8 couples